What am i supposed to do in such a situation good people?
My girlfriend of almost two years and I are students in South Africa.She is from TZ and i'm form Kenya.This is our final year year in Varsity and after this i intend to stay here but she wants to go back to Tz because she hates this country.How do i convince her to stay behind ? The only reason i can't leave is because i'm an actuarial student and if i want to progress in my career then i have to be in South Africa or abroad because the rest of Africa looks up to South Africa Actuarial wise.
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1 :
Give her the pros and cons of moving out or staying but never decide for her. If you love someone you have to set her free.
2 :
If she hates it there she will probably never really be happy even if she choses to stay there with you. If you really love her its up to you to make the sacrifice, and if the sacrifice is not worth making than maybe its for the best if she leaves.
3 :
I can understand you and her. You have to stay so you can have a good job and make progress and want her to stay because she loves you. And she probably doesn't liek the country and doesn't want to be there any more than necessary. I don't know what the two of you should do. You can't force her to stay somewhere she doesn't want to stay and she should consider staying if she loves you. I mean, it's easier to live somewhere you don't want to live with someone you love then the opposite.
4 :
Are you saying that your (potential) career is more important than the woman you so deeply love? Take a deep breath, and book a flight to anywhere. South Africa sucks anyway. Lots better places to forge your future.
5 :
This is a chance to see how stable your relationship. First, if she wants to go back, let her go. Second, if you see that the best way for you to succeed is to stay, you have to stay. If she will choose to stay, she will regret that she did not try her way. If you will choose to leave, you will always think about your lost options. If she doesn't want to stay, she is not ready to sacrifice her life for you. Something wrong in this relationship. Do you think she is really a good match? Let her go and time will decide everything. May be she will change her mind when you and her will be apart...
6 :
tough one, remember you cannot make her do anything she doesnt want to do. but if its true love you should be okay because when in love we all make sacrifices to keep it going. just my opinion
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